Take me serious please…

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Sometimes, I come off as unserious.

Most times.

Every time. Lol.

I’m sorry but who would take me serious? This tiny, small, petite, brief, a bit tall-but-not-exactly-short- somebody of a person that can shine teeth for Africa (to think that close up haven’t even seen me yet) and play for the whole world.

You know I can play. Abi?

But I am serious too though. I mean, I’m a serious person. I have a serious face as I type this. (I’m trying to hold my breath here, please give me credit)

Sometimes ehn, I wonder if God takes me serious too. You should see when I pray. I mean, one on one with God. I’m a mess. I have no praying direction whatsoever. I can begin with asking for forgiveness, than migrate to thanking him and wooing him (I just love to sing his praises) and I’ll stop. I’ll stop to think if I have an intention and half of the time, I won’t remember so I’ll just go on with gisting with him and when I’m done I’ll round up, end my prayers and move on. Now, that’s where the problem is.

In my process of moving on, I’ll remember I left out an intention so I’ll chip it in. The funny thing is this. I pray anywhere; at any point in the house. I won’t say the first thing I do immediately I wake is to pray. I’d probably say ‘hello God…’ and move on. Then while I’m trying to work out, prepare breakfast or do chores, I’ll begin my prayers. Now, imagine I just left the bathroom some two minutes ago and I prayed in the bathroom only to remember I left out something. Yes, you guessed right. I’ll run back into the bathroom, as foolish as that is, grinning like a cow and trying to call God back like he left to go to the market.

How I begin to pray is the weirdest part. I’ll be like.

‘Eeerrr…hi God….errr….hi again. Wait are you there? It is me again. Yes. Hi….I’m fine. I forgot something. I’m sorry. I didn’t know what I was thinking. Yes. So back to the prayer, where did I stop??(Here, I’m rolling my eyes trying to think of the last thing I said so I can connect it with the new prayer request.) Oh! yea…so…yea…bless our country and keep us in peace.  And God o, (I’m trying to chip in the new intention) I need your help. I need direction. I don’t think I know what I’m doing. Not like I don’t know, I know but it just seems like I don’t know. So, basically, I need your help. I’m sort of confused’ (I can imagine God giving me the ‘ oh so you know’ stare.) ‘I always am’, I continue. ‘So will you help me out?  Say like, err…would you give a sign or something??…like I don’t know…you just do your thing…please. Yea? Biko nu? Ehn? Thank you.’

I end the prayer again and proceed to leave. I step back into the bathroom,

‘errr…one more thing. The sign, nothing heavy…something I can identify without looking stupid before you and forgive me for the times I wasted your time…’ At this point, I feel God is a staring at his wrist watch probably a Michael kors brand. So I’m like, ‘OK…I’m done’. I leave and proceed to go on with the rest of my day.

A couple of days later, I have forgotten I asked God for a sign. So I just do regular prayer without bothering about it. I have realized that, you never really should bother yourself about God’s timing, he is never late.

Early this week, I’d been a bit ‘directionless’, if there’s a word like that. Being clouded with so many plans can be confusing. So I talk to my brother and his wife and they give me the assuring support of always believing and focusing on being better in my art. So I began to rearrange my priorities again o.

Tuesday night in the middle of work, I tell God in a whisper, ‘I need your direction’ and I go on with work.

By Wednesday, something comes to my mind.  Something completely out of my plan; not even in the priority list. I ignore it.

A couple of incidents bring up the thought. I get excited and decide to give it a try.

Fast forward to this morning. I’m preparing to leave for Abeokuta to go do some work. In the bathroom again, I do not pray. Instead, I’m like, ‘can I do this God’? and I move out. I know what you are thinking. Sorry, I didn’t go back, I hurriedly get dressed to leave.

We get to Abeokuta and drive to location. As we approach location, my client tells me, ‘by the way Marie, we would pass Wole Soyinka’s house’.

*ONE MOMENT OF SILENCE AS I TRY TO EXPLAIN WITHOUT FULLY EXPLAINING THE EXCITEMENT I FEEL*

As a member of the arts, Wole Soyinka is a big deal! BIG DEAL!!!

I’m excited. Very excited. It’s not like I’m going to see him o. But I am super excited. So I tell a member of the team, ‘on our way back, you’d take pictures of me here. Forget the pictures we took already, this counters them.’

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So here I am, on our way back to Lagos looking at the pictures that were taken and it hits me!

‘This is it! This is the sign chidi! You bloody bastard! This is it!

Only then does it occur to me, ‘….something I can identify without being stupid’. Choi! God is never late. I feel a bit stupid (nice one God) but I don’t mind. I figured this out and I’m glad I did. I will take baby step for this. I don’t want to get too excited and end up not doing it but I’m going to do this. I definitely will.

I would tell you guys but I’ll wait till I finish and you’ll see eventually. I’m still on my way home as I write this although I would post this when I get home but I can’t wait to get home and while I freshen up, I’ll have a long talk with God. I don’t know how I’ll start or end. But I’ll be saying a lot of thank yous and I definitely would woo him.

Only God knows how God takes me serious, lol…only he knows.

FYI, as you can see, we no fit to enter the house but, I’ll call those numbers tomorrow. Not to book an appointment, but to announce my ARRIVAL. Run! Wole. Run!

P.S Dear Wole Soyinka, The love of my literature life, if you ever see this, biko, let me in…I promise I won’t come with a car and I won’t ask stupid questions although for the first two hours I will be totally clumsy and will be in awe of your white hair. I have a fro…should I dye it white?

39 thoughts on “Take me serious please…”

  1. LMAO!!! Oopss… *serious face*…. Great… God works in Mysterious ways….We ask and We get..even if it takes a bit of a tym..am Glad U hav seen d manifestation of God’s work …and i Pray He will do More for U. #wole don’t hav a choice bt 2 answer U..Na Godpikin dey call am nah..ℓ☺ℓ

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  2. U knw, i knw d way u pray and its funny, but God clearly understands ur heart, told u b4 and i am still saying it, dey go hear ur name soon…. jst keep pushing, u made my morning babe….nice one

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  3. This is a brilliant piece that God used to touch me this morning…. To remind me that he is with me no matter what tomorrow brings… I became recently scared of the world diabolical… Every new prayer said near me centers around strange old stories- its questionable that I don’t take it serious.

    What I believe is seriously being tested by what close ones share. The way to solve face challenges is stand – no kneel in prayer to break curses from past generations.

    I believe God has a plan, a great one – He loves us and I know it. But we keep looking for answers to questions we know nothing about. Answering will I be successful with “Scatter them – The giants that hangout in the tools I use plotting by downfall”.

    The chance that all that I have written makes sense is crazy… Just as crazy as what I feel… Who I stand for and who I listen to. The holy book is sure a guide, but reading the same chapter cramped in half a page leaves you somewhat myopic.

    I praise – sing halleluyah to the one who makes the moon reflect the sun… He is everything

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    1. Hi, Tomiwa, your comments are so relatable and I’m so happy it touched you. I totally relate to your ‘questions’ but I always comfort myself knowing that no matter what, God still answers me- He loves me.
      I’ve found a way to feel comfortable when I pray without feeling the need to ‘kill or destroy’ but not forgetting that we fight against principality and powers still. For me, there came a time when I had to condition myself to think outside the norm. What if it has nothing to do with ‘a person’, ‘a village’ or ‘a thing’? Yes these things happen and people testify to them, but, I try always to remember that there are times when all is calm and life is stable but in the midst of that stability, I still have falls here and there but I choose to see them (some of them) as ‘signs’ and these ‘signs’ enable me to prepare and focus on solving the problem and not focusing on the problem. Like I said, God is never late. Everything about my life has happened as they should be, irrespective of what I may have thought.
      Christ teaches us that there are different approaches to every situation as we see in the scriptures.
      We pray every day that we never cease to be worthy of God’s grace for only his grace pushes us to see beyond the ordinary and to ‘identify the signs without being stupid.’…lol
      I see every situation as the ocean. I love the ocean. The ocean is fiery and calm but not fiery always or calm always and that is how I try to go ahead with every situation asking God for his direction and trusting him to do it within his time.
      And yes, you do make sense. God bless you.

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  4. Lol…chidi, chidi, chidi…funny, entertaining, and educative work u got here. I like it. By the way, ur more serious dan u think. Nice one.and success in ur plan.

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  5. U know God has your back always,just believe . This is trully nice.#icanbeyouraccountant##whenthemoneystartsrollingin#

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  6. First time I’m seeing a big, toothy smile on Chidi’s face! Wow! Wole should definitely see this! But, never mind, if Wole doesn’t take you serious, I will!

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  7. Wow… am happy reading this, I cried and smiled at the same time, can’t tell which was more. Honey, write a novel and let me be the STAR in it. This is a lovely piece of art, God is indeed watching and listening to you. Carry on my beautiful lady.

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  8. Uhmnn!!! Truly God answers in His own way and at His time. Its good we keep raising up to him the desires of our heart. When you asked me that question some days back Marie, I sensed your state of confusion, sorry I didn’t give you enough time and tangible answers but thank God He did better. Go girl! God leas you

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  9. Your prayer pattern is intriguing but not strange. Now, I want to visit Kongi’s place (Marie when you get access I’m going with you)

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  10. Great work with the narrative ma’am..
    You just know how to spice your inked words..

    Hey fam, join this great community we share, like you do with Marie …#Celonarants™ blogs at celonaiphyblog.wordpress.com & celonaiphyblog.com, hope you do pay us a visit and share in our thoughts.
    Bless.

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  11. oh dear I’m happy you are shining your teeth for Africa now…lol… to be honest, you deserve to be happy and what you ask for from God, you will surely get. Amen. And babe ehh! if you never sabi before, you can be playfully playful and seriously serious as well.

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  12. I have finished… Finally.. Before you crucify me… And since I am too shy to post with my name.. Well.. You should know who this is. My *pray for marie* alarm rings. Someone will wonder why I don’t have an alarm for myself…. Hmm… I hope you not rolling your eyes.. I love this piece though., Reminds me of how I pray… Something similar but… Anyways… God bless your soul hun.. We always get confusef at some point but this reassuring piece here says there is always hope… And I believe in that divine direction… Because I really need it now. You garra be smacked though for not noticing that sign on time.. I’m sure you will get in but please don’t scatter his house. God bless you plenty….. 🙂

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